The holiday season is supposedly a joyful time to celebrate and gather with friends and family. However, for many people, the holidays can be particularly difficult. We speak of “peace on earth” but are under constant threat of terrorism and war. The commercialization of the season paints an unrealistic “Hallmark” picture of happiness and expectation. Many are overwhelmed by their increased list of “to-dos”. And financial strain often hits an all-time high.
Feelings of depression are often swept under the rug and regarded as nothing more than the “holiday blues”. But such feelings should not be overlooked or neglected. It is important to keep a vigilant watch for signs of depression and anxiety within yourself or with a loved one.
If you recognize these feelings within yourself, take action. Don’t forget the importance of self-care. Try as much as possible to get 8-9 hours of sleep a night, eat regular meals, exercise, and keep your regular routines. Finally, don’t hesitate to reach out for help. A licensed professional has skill sets and knowledge that you likely won’t find amongst family and friends.
If you recognize a loved one struggling with feelings of depression and anxiety, then here are 7 ways you can help them this holiday season.
Don’t forget, that we are here to assist. Our licensed therapists have years of experience and love to help and lift people. We are happy to provide you or a loved one with a free trial session of online therapy.
It's likely that at some point you have heard the expression "it's like learning to ride a bike". An expression used to describe skills that once learned, are easy to recall and hard to forget. Neuroscientists have discoved that each time a new skill is learned, the brain creates a neuralpathway. The ability to ride a bike, even after years of not doing so, is attributed to the therory that repetition strengthens neural pathways, allowing certain muscle movements within the memory, to be stored in the brain.
When faced with a traumatic experience or preceived threat, the nervous system signals the release of stress hormones, setting off a “fight-or-flight” response. The body reacts by triggering an increase in heart rate and respiration, constricting blood vessels and tightening muscles. If the nervous system is unable to return to its normal state of balance and unable to move on from traumatic events, people often experience PTSD.
What if there was actually a way to help restore balance and assist the brain in re-processing traumatic memories?
A study, funded by Kaiser Permanente, found that 100% of the single-trauma victims and 77% of multiple trauma victims no longer were diagnosed with PTSD after only six 50-minute sessions.
People who have suffered for years from PTSD symptoms, including anxiety, intrusive thoughts, difficulty sleeping, and even chronic pain, are experiencing relief from a unique, relatively new therapy called Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing, or simply EMDR.
EMDR does not involve the use of drugs or hypnosis. Rather, EMDR works by using bilateral stimulation, either guided right/left eye movement, or tactile stimulation, such as tapping, to activate alternate sides of the brain. This allows the memory of traumatic experiences that are essentially "trapped" in the nervous system, to be released. Researchers believe this happens as a result of the physiological process of rerouting neuropathways through the brain.
Much like the process of learning to ride a bike builds new neuropathways that strengthen over time, the repetitive, bilateral stimulation used in EMDR allows new neuropathways to be created at the same time traumatic memories are being reprocessed and desensitized. The memories still exist, but the nervous system no longer triggers the "fight or flight" response when the memories are recalled. As a result EMDR can greatly reduce the negative impact trauma has on a person's life.
EMDR therapy is also unique, as it involves attention to three time periods: the past, present, and future. Focus is given to disturbing memories of the past, while current situations that cause distress are identified, and skills are developed for positive future actions.
While EMDR was initially developed for the treatment of PTSD, mental healthcare providers have reported a great response to when used to treat other conditions such as intense grief from loss of a loved one, generalized anxiety, phobias and addiction.
If you are a loved one are suffering from PTSD, a difficult life challenge or other condition, E-Counseling Essentials offers EMDR therapy sessions online, through trained and licensed therapists. Try it out with a free online therapy session.
*A full description of the theory, sequence of treatment, and research on protocols and active mechanisms can be found in F. Shapiro (2001) Eye movement desensitization and reprocessing: Basic principles, protocols and procedures (2nd edition) New York: Guilford Press.